Biblically, I think we shouldn't have sex until we're married. Otherwise, I think 18 is kinda ok. Views on sex, however, vary dramatically from person to person or from area to area. Is it ok to have sex at like 12 (absolutely not, says I!)? You know that people have done that. But, I say no sex before marriage, or at least until 18.
What do you think?
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I guess it depends on when the person is ready, but they should be well into their teens at the least. The casual sex stuff I really can't stand at all, I think if your going to have sex before marriage at least be in love with the person.
I say if you think you're ready to take it on, go for it, but if you get hurt or make a bad decision don't go complaining about it or blaming the other half. Take responsiblity for your choices and actions.
Yea, If you're gonna have sex with sumone...at least be in a relationship with them. Being a little brittany running around doing everyone you can is gross. I'm one of those people who think that if you're ready to do the dirty...go for it, but you have to accept everything that comes with it. Getting your heart broken... STD's... PREGNANCY! If you think you're old enough to have sex...you also have to be old enough to accept the responsibility of having a baby. If you can't handle what comes with it...you can't handle it period. Deal with it...
Age tis only a number, i say if someone is mentally mature and ready, and feels like they can handle something like that, then feel free.
Waiting til marriage really seems naive to me. I'd personally like to have sex before marriage so i know what i should be looking forward to. That, and being with different people give you a wider.. experience range, i guess you could say. I wouldn't want to jump into a serious commitment such as marriage, and not know how to please my partner in more than 1 way.